December 25, 2009
Death
My mom died unexpectedly about two months ago now, and I have been spending a lot of time thinking. I never realized how hard it would be to lose a loved one. Even though we know the inevitable, that we will all someday die, it is really painful to go through. My mom was a wonderful person, full of love. She always made friends wherever she went, and always wanted others to be happy. When my mom died I was really shocked and sad. I cried a lot at first, but then my thoughts turned to my mom's life. I thought about her attributes and realized that crying wasn't the best way to honor her. I realized that to honor her I needed to live my life, to move forward and to carry on the legacy of helping others find joy and love in their lives. The gospel teaches us to love and serve one another and that by so doing everyone will be taken care of. I have been applying this principle in my life and have experienced the most amazing joy and happiness!
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Aubrey, you are amazing and such an example to me. I feel blessed to know you.
ReplyDeleteYou will survive and thrive. I am so sorry to hear of your mom's passing and understand how hard it is. It does get easier each day, and each day provides another opportunity to live in a way that you will make your mother proud, allow you to be with her again, and feel closer to her than ever before. I love you and think of our time together often. If you want to talk call me at 502-489-1198 ... I'd love to hear from you :)
ReplyDeleteI wish that I was 1/3 of as wise as you are. You truly are an example to all. You touch every life you encounter. You are a beautiful person Aubrey. Mom would be more than proud of you she would be amazed by you and the woman you have become. You mean so much to me my little sister. I think I might take your wisdome and apply it in my life. Its time to move on in the healing process and honor her by "brining Joy to love" to others.
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